just an f.y.i

ok im gonna let you people in on a little sercret im my own independent person no one can get me to do anything i really want to or not want to do, no one can influence my opinion. so going to him to try to get him to talk me out of something or to put in a good word for you doesent work ok he knows me really well but he doesent control me or my thoughts. so let me give you a little advice if there is anything that involves you and i dont go to him cause hes not gonna do shit to help your case come to me cause im the one that it involves and that matters. he could talk and tell me things til he was hoarse its not gonna help you im a stubborn person and ive got my own mind and he cant change it. it really irritates me when you drag him into our problems or situations, if i wanted him involved i would have brought him into the loop myself hes got his own shit to deal with certain things i keep him out of for a reason frankly its not his business and i dont need him knowing everything. so in summary if there is an issue come to me not him because im the only one that has any effect on the situation.